Positive vibes 🙌 (original post Aug 19th, 2017, 11.12PM)

 'Smile and the world 🌎 smiles with u', 'Karma is a b**ch' and 'Behaviour breeds behaviour' are sayings we hear 👂 sometimes. I think there's truth in all of them! We tend to get back what we give...so who wants to get negativity?! 😣

Easier said than done sometimes, I know but to coin another popular phrase 'Just do it'! 😁 Be positive!

Today, I was telling my Mam about a way I handled a situation at work and it stuck with me what she said...but u know what they say? Mothers are always right! And I agree. She said that whenever you have a chance to do something nice you should.

Goes back to what I said at the start of this, but also thinking, why are we not nice at times? For me, I've thought about it a lot as I've got the 'negative' label and that's not easy to get rid of but it's like a defence thing for me where if I'm seen to be nice it's like a weak feeling and there's a fear of being taken advantage of, so the wall goes up and it all comes across as a big fat NEGATIVE vibe 👎 Not good! 😞 It goes back to a bad time a few years back where I was so down in myself so with putting walls up, it wasn't letting anyone in and that just became a norm...just not so easy to get out of it but it's work in progress! ☺️ Acknowledgement is one step and wanting to change is another and I'm there with both! ☺️

It's maybe harder for some people to get away from having these walls up,  especially if things have happened that aren't so fantastic but we just need to look around at what we have that's great for us and not what has gone bad in the past especially things that don't deserve a second thought.

Surrounding ourselves with those family and friends we love should help us ooze positivity and I got a reminder of how that can help others today. I met one of my closest friends and she seemed to be having a down day. She thanked me later saying how nothing like a good catch up with friends can put a smile on your face. Blessed to have these people in my life...family and friends...so as long as they have health and happiness...there's the biggest positive vibe for me! 🙌💗

Now, to try hold onto that and build and move forward! It's a better way for us to be instead of being stagnant, negative and letting the world pass you by. They say 'misery loves company' but negativity can leave you alone.

So, we should surround ourselves with what makes us happy...#family #friends #music #travel #sport #fitness #food #socialising #life ❤️💛💚💙💜💞💕❣️💓💗💖