Imposter syndrome & crossroads (original post Aug 23rd, 2021)

When faced with crossroads 🗺 in our lives, many thoughts 💭 can start racing and can have some negative results. 😞 Imposter syndrome when researched has been described in many different ways. Some common ones are having feelings ​of self doubt, thinking we are not worthy of successes we have achieved or that we are not competent as others may claim we are. Having imposter syndrome can make the person feel they are not good enough and that any successes were not down to them but because of luck from external factors. Having this fear and self doubt can lead to missed opportunities by casting shadows over bright skies 🌌 that are around us waiting to be explored! We need to take the blinkers off here and celebrate 🎉 even the smallest of wins along the way and own any achievements gained. Think of each one as a stepping stone onto the next path. Maybe it’s not our initial desired one but we should try to be open to what’s ahead. Think about it-if we weren’t open before now-we may have missed all the good that we have around us right now. So pick a path, try and see where it leads and embrace each lesson and gift 💝 along the way 😌😌😌 #achieve #crossroads #opportunity #try #journey#success #believe #meanttobe

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